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Why We Named Our Son Drake

What’s in a name…

I made this video a couple of days after my birth story video. I was inspired after watching Mama Natural’s video on youtube about why and how they chose the name Paloma for their new baby girl. So in this video I discuss the reasons behind why we chose Drake’s first and middle names. Hope you enjoy the video.

Comment below and let me know how or why you chose your names for your children. Also let me know what you think of these video posts. Should I add a transcript of the video? Is it good as is? Should I write an article related to the topic? Advice and suggestions are much appreciated πŸ™‚

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10 Tips & Tricks for Teething Infants & Toddlers


This picture is a little old (from last year), but I felt like the Toothy Grin went with what I'm writing about today.

This picture is a little old (from last year), but I felt like the Toothy Grin went with what I’m writing about today.

So, Drake’s last 4 molars are coming in. The molars are meant to be the most painful. On the bright side these coming teeth mark the end of teething! Drake got his first two teeth at 3 months old (top, front). The rest came in quickly after that. Β By 10 months old he had almost all his teeth, except these molars coming now. It wasn’t easy, but I feel like now we’re pros at it. The hardest part is always the helpless feeling that you get when your baby is in pain.

With his first few teeth we were using baby Ora-gel to try to ease that pain. Big mistake! Besides the fact that it’s not in the least bit natural (which we hadn’t considered that when we first used it), Drake hated it. It numbed everything and caused him to gag. It was a pain in the ass to get him to let us rub it on his gums. Plus it was too expensive. When we started looking into natural living, I found a variety of different opinions on how to handle teething naturally. We tried a few and some we didn’t get around to trying. Most of the ones we tried worked. So today i want to share 10 tips and tricks with you. About half of these we tried with Drake and the other half we want to try with future babies.

10 Teething Tips & Tricks We’ve Tried and Want to Try

  • Wash Cloths:Β We had tons of wash cloths and burp cloths for Drake that we had accumulated throughout my pregnancy. A simple trick you can try is to wet a wash/burp cloth and let your baby chew on it. This will massage their gums and release some of the pressure. You can also Β put a piece of ice Β in the center of the cloth and then wrap it up and secure it with a rubber band. The cold helps to furthur relieve the pain but numbing the gums. This did work for Drake. We found that a cloth with Ice wrapped in it worked better when he was able to hold it himself (Drake started teething at four weeks old)
  • Teethers:Β Good quality teethers are another great option. You can refrigerate or freeze them. Just make sure you get teethers that are right for your child’s age. This works similar to the cloth, it massages the gums and when cold numbs them as well. We freeze ours and then let Drake gnaw on them until they go warm. If you don’t mind loads of drool everywhere, this is a good quick trick.
  • Sophie the Giraffe:Β This thing was all the rage when I was pregnant. My mom bought us one for Drake. It’s meant to smell like vanilla, which is supposed to be soothing, but I’ve never been able to smell it. It’s completely safe and marketed towards natural/crunchy parents. Drake loved to chew on it’s legs and squeeze it so it would squeak. He doesn’t chew on it much now, but he loves to play with it and make it squeak. Even my three and a half year old niece still likes to play with it. It’s on the pricey side, but that just might be because we live in NYC. The quality is great though so it’s worth it.
  • Amber Teething Necklace:Β We unfortunately never got to try this. I only learned about it last summer. Drake had already all but the four teeth breaking through now, so I didn’t bother to buy one. We plan to try it with our next child. How this works is that the amber releases succinic acid which relieves pain, and is anti-inflammatory. The necklace should be worn against baby’s skin. It shouldn’t be worn at sleep times, however you can loosely wrap it around an ankle and secure it with a sock and it will still be effective. Some companies even make matching mommy healing amber necklaces.
  • Frozen Pops (Breast milk/fruit juice or formula):Β This trick is a simple trick you can do yourself. Simply freeze fresh fruit juice (cut with water if your child is under 2 years old) or breast milk. Some say you can do this with formula as well. Once it’s frozen solid, you can let your infant or toddler suck or gum the frozen pop. This will numb the gums for a short period of time.Β We tried this when Drake was old enough to drink fruit juice, but we plan to try it with breast milk with the future babies. Drake really enjoys them and they give him instant relief. They can be messy though, so if you’re cool with that give it a try.
  • Hard Frozen Fruits and/or Veggies:Β This is another yummy way to relieve teething pain. If you have any hard fruit or veggies (i.e. carrots), you can freeze these too. This will both relieve pressure and numb the gums. We tried this when Drake was older and able to chew and swallow solids, so his first frozen fruit was strawberries. They did work for him though.
  • Feeding Teether:Β I believe Munchkin is one of the companies that makes these. We never got to try this, but again we plan to next time around. Basically, these have a handle and a little mesh part that can hold solid food. The mesh prevents large piece of food from getting into your baby’s mouth and possibly getting swallowed. They can chew on the mesh part and taste the food. This will relieve pressure and if the food is frozen or cold it will numb their gums as well.
  • Razbaby Teething Binky:Β These are great! We stumbled upon them when Drake was just starting out with teething. They’re hard bumpy/ridged binkies that are shaped like raspberries. They are a bit bulky so we found that prior to six months, Drake didn’t like it. It didn’t fit in his little mouth and it was too heavy to hold. But as he got older he grew into it and it really did help. It relieve the pressure by massaging the gums. There is no plastic parts so the whole binky can be chewed on, even the handle/hook piece. These are great for on the go relief.
  • Massage Jaw, Under Ears or Gums:Β This really helps and you can do it any stage. Drake doesn’t like us putting our fingers in his mouth, so we would massage his jaw and under his ears. This works great if your child is in full freak-out mode or if you have absolutely nothing else (like if you’re out and about). Drake calm down very quickly whenever we give him the massages. It’s relaxing and soothing for baby. It might even put them to sleep (it does occasionally for us).
  • Humphry’s Tablets or Hylands Teething Gel:Β last bur certainly not least, are homeopathic natural remedies. The two mentioned above are ones we tried and love. First is Humphrey’s Tablets, which you dissolve in a little water and then massage into your baby’s gums. We tried these when Drake first started teething. It worked great for the first six months. Eventually he needed something more, which is when we found Hylands Teething Gel. This works like oragel, but it is completely pure and natural. The numbing is not as intense so baby won’t gag. Like Humphrey’s you massage this into your baby’s gums (and around teeth if they have a few already). They both numb the gums and based on Drake’s experiences, I assume they are different levels of intensity. We love them though. They are way better than Baby Oragel. You can find them at any health food store, Whole Foods Market and even some drugstores carry them now.

So those are my tips and tricks. As you can see for the most part everything we’ve tried so far, worked for us. So I hope this helps if you’re a new mommy or daddy and you’re not sure where to begin with teething relief. Let me know in the comments if you’ve tried or plan to try any of these tricks. IF there’s something you’ve tried that is natural and not on this list, again let me know in the comments below.

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Happy New Year! My Resolutions for 2014

Happy New Year!

It’s 2014! I don’t usually do resolutions, but I’ve decided to give them a shot this year. I’ve already started Β working toward these goals Β at the end of 2013, but I’m going to call them resolutions anyway. I want to accomplish these goals by 2015.

So, hope you enjoy this little video. Do you have any resolutions? Do you believe in resolutions? Let me know.


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Merry Christmas!

Drake on Christmas Morning.

Drake on Christmas Morning.

I know, I know… Christmas was technically last week. This post is late. I had every intention to slap this up here either on Christmas eve or on boxing day but that just didn’t pan out. So I’m doing this now.

Christmas Eve
Our Christmas eves aren’t usually eventful. Mot of the time it’s prep for Christmas day. This year was no exception. Colin and i woke up early baked Pumpkin Cheesecake and hung out with the kids.The kids were supposed to bake cookies for Santa with my sister but she ended up doing that on her own. They were playing all day and ended up passing out. Drake didn’t stay asleep as usual, so he had to hide in the room with me while Santa (aka Colin, my sister and her husband) set up all the toys in our living room. The end. That was our Christmas eve.

Christmas Day
Christmas day is when we celebrate. What an exhausting day. We woke up early, despite the fact that Drake went to bed at like 5:00AM. We had to enlist our niece Gabbie to help us wake Drake up. Then it was time to open presents. Our favorite part of the day. I love seeing the joy on the kids faces when they see eveything Santa left them and start unwrapping presents.

Santa brought Drake a wooden Chuggington train set, Cars, The Octonauts Octopod, and a few other things. We bought him some transformers toys and games. Basically Drake got lots of toys, a couple of movies and a few books. He had two overflowing stockings with candy and little toys and things. Even with all of that, wouldn’t you know it, Drake spent most of the time playing with his cousin’s kitchen play set.

Pretty much the whole morning was spent watching the kids play. After that we started setting up for dinner. We expected more guests than what actually came, which happens often. My mother and sister prepared a delicious mostly polish dinner of perogies, kielbasa, and so on. We also had ham and some salads. There was lots of treats like babka, cakes and cookies. And now we have plenty of leftovers. Well not now… after Christmas we did.

That’s about it. I’m making this a quick overview because I’m so late. I did manage to get a litt bit of footage on Christmas morning so I’ve made a little video for the channel. So be sure to check it out.

Mostly I’m writing this because I wanted to wish you all a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

Oh, and a happy New Year!

Thanks all, enjoy the rest of the holidays.


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Drake Is 2 Years Old!

Drake blowing out his Birthday candles.

Drake blowing out his Birthday candles.


Drake is 2 years old!!
On December 5, 3013, my little boy turned two years old. It’s hard to believe that two years has already passed since that cold, rainy day I brought him home from the hospital. I am so proud of everything he’s accomplished in the last two years. He’s an amazing little boy; smart, handsome and incredibly kind-hearted. Β Colin and I are truly blessed to have him. He has given us hope for the future of this world.

I often hear first time parents say things like “after this I’m getting my tubes tied” or “I can’t handle being pregnant again”. Things along those lines. Whether they mean it or not is another story. Colin and I, however, feel completely the opposite. From the moment I got pregnant to now we’ve never once considered not having more children. If anything Drake has made us want more children a whole lot more. He is a great kid and he’ll be a great big brother.

So the Parties…
Yes, parties. Well, I wouldn’t call what we did on the day of his brithday a party. We had dinner as a family, with the rest of my family (even my aunt came from DE), and we had a small cake. The kids got to play all day and that was about it.

His actual birthday party was the Saturday after his birthday. We decided on a Spider man theme after about two months. We were going to go with a Rescue Bots theme (which is favorite TV show), but we would’ve had to get the decorations and favors online. We didn’t have enough time for that. This was all very last minute. So his favorite super hero seemed like the next best option. We didn’t have as big of a party as we did for his first birthday. This one was just in our house. We invited a few cousins and family friends. There was about six kids including Drake. Β He had a lot of fun running around with them. He even learned how to sing the Happy Birthday song. He’s been singing it ever since (including right this moment). Now if only I could get him to say “Merry Christmas”.

Drake and his Cousin Gabbie, his best friend in the world

Drake and his Cousin Gabbie, his best friend in the world

Drake Update…
So at 2 Drake is really well developed. He’s brilliant, we think. Since he was born, he’s hit all his milestones early and he still continues to do so. He has been walking now since he was 11 months old and he’s recently started trying to frog hop. I’m assuming that’s the first step towards jumping. He’s been speaking in full sentences since about 20 months. He started with 2 or 3 words phrases at 18 months and now he’s got the gift of gab. He’s always talking. He sings too. He knows the lyrics to the songs from all his favorite shows and movies. He’s even learned the lyrics to a song that he likes from a band called Icon For Hire. He’s exhibiting early signs of musical ability. He’s been mimicking my melodies on the piano, sloppily, but noticeably. I think if his hands were bigger he’d be able to copy exactly what I do. What else… oh, he counts to 20 and he knows his ABC’s. He’s very polite; always saying please and thank you. His best friend is his cousin Gabbie. His favorite TV shows are Rescue Bots and Spider man. Drake’s favorite movies is Wreck it Ralph and Nightmare Before Christmas. He’s a eclectic with music like his mommy. And lastly, he’s picky, not because he doesn’t like the food we give him but because he just always wants to play. When i say he’s picky I mean he’s picky about where and when he eats.

So yeah, we are going to try again with potty training. We started when he was 18 months but he lost interest and we don’t do force. He’s still a co-sleeper and we’re in no rush. He’s taken an interest in his bed though, ever since we put Jake & the Neverland Pirate bedding on it. Like I always say, whenever he’s ready we’ll support his decisions. For now we are keeping his guardrail on our bed. We have so many plans for the spring. There are museums we want to take him to and parks, and zoos, etc. We treat everything as a learning experience Β and it’s been working so far. He’s so curious and adventurous. We can’t wait for what the future holds.


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How Attachment Parenting Found Us

We didn’t choos Attachment Parenting; it chose us. Finding out I was pregnant was a shock, even though it was something I really wanted. I had all these ideas of what being a parent was going to be like and what kind of parent I was going to be. Most of my ideas were based on how I was brought up and my sister’s style of parenting. I didn’t do much research on parenting, though if you asked me about pregnancy I was like an encyclopedia (or at least I thought I was until I learned about GMOs, Natural Remedies, Traditional Nutrition, etc.).Β Β  I wish I’d known all that I know now, but I was yound and only knew what I’d witnessed and was told by my family.

Drake and IWhen Drake was born, I researched child development constantly, but much like my pregnancy research, it was all from mainstream outlets. I didn’t start looking at alternative sources until Drake was about eight months old, when he decided he didn’t want to sleep in his crib anymore. We begna co-sleeping, which no one I knew recommended. About a month into it, a friend and I got into an argument. She had a son a little younger than Drake and she strongly opposed co-sleeping. I felt as though she was judging or criticizing my parenting. At the time I didn’t know that mom competition was a common occurance for some strange reason. Angry at being judged, I began to research bed-sharing, just to prove that my decision was a smart and safe decision. I wanted to prove that I was a good mom. I know now, that I shouldn’t have played into the whole thing, but I don’t regret it because if this hadn’t occured I wouldn’t have learned about attachment parenting.

My co-sleeping research led me to several communities on facebook. I met other moms who shared my views on parenting. They pointed me to The Baby Book by Dr. Sears. It took me a while to purchase it. I continued researching online. Eventually I realized much of what my husband andΒ I were doing fell under this style of parenting already. When Drake was around 13 months old, I finally bought the book. ItΒ  meducated me on things I had misconceptions about, like babywaeringΒ and it reaffirmed things I already believed in like peaceful and positive discipline, breastfeeding and of course co-sleeping.

We decided to fully commit to attachment parenting and ditch the traditional parenting styles of our family members and friends. Unfortunately it was a littl e too late for the babywearing aspect and breastfeeding was cut short at a monnth and a half because I thought my supply dried up Knowing what I know now, I’m not sure if that was the case or not.Β  I try to do the best I can now and plan to do better in the future.

This style works great for us. Drake is an independent, free spirited kid. He’s confident and smart. Sure he’s curious and mischevious, but he’s not as bad as other toddlers I’ve seen. He’s very polite and respectful. I’d like to think all of that has something to do with attachment parenting. They say we’re never the type of parents we imagine we’d be, but I think Colin and I are exactly the kind of parents we wanted to be.


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